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Tips on Pleasuring a Woman - by John F.
Pleasuring a woman
When it comes to foreplay, cunnilingus, and even in penetration, most men only know a few things about giving a woman pleasure. Most women, therefore, expect only so much. If you know more tricks, are more patient, and aim to really get a woman to have fantastic pleasure, she will be overwhelmed by what you do. It can be so much better that you really will be treated like her sex-god.
There are many things to do in what people call foreplay. I'll skip a lot of the techniques there. Women are individual. One might like a slow massage. Another might like sexy whispering in her ear letting her know what you are going to do. Explore and be patient at finding what each woman gets started by.
The tips I will give are further on, how to make a woman cum like she never has. First, the nipples and clit are not the only places she will respond. They are the first and easiest places. She’ll expect you to pay attention to them, so do that with your fingers and mouth until she cums at least once. (Most women think this is their limit because they have never had a man who knows how and tries for more. You will be that man.)
There are two spots inside her pussy that are super-responsive. One is the famous, even mythical, g spot. A little explaining about the g spot before I tell you how to do it. Where is it? It is on the inside front wall, an inch or so in. It is a mound covered in folds or ridges, so it feels rougher.
Why do so few know about it? Unlike the clit, which can be very sensitive all of the time, the g spot is not very sensitive until after a woman has an orgasm. Then it can be very, very responsive but the second reason why is that stimulating it takes more pressure, a firmer touch than you use on the clit. Stroke it with your fingertips, like signally 'Come here", with a firm pressure. She ought to cum after a couple dozen strokes.
Be careful. G spot orgasms can be very intense and she might writhe and flail. They also are often very wet. The combination of the wetness and strong cumming may make her squirt it really happens sometimes. If you do not want a puddle in your bed, make sure she sits on a towel before you do her g spot.
Not only are g spot orgasms more intense than a clit one, but they can be much, much longer lasting. In fact, for many women they last for as long as you rub them. You can even rub, rest, rub, rest and repeat over and over again to give her multiple orgasms in dozens.
For a few women, rubbing the g spot can feel uncomfortable. This often feels to her like she needs to pee. If your woman is bothered by this, do not despair. The g spot has a twin!
The deeper spot is really an area in the back of her pussy that runs along the back wall from one side, around behind her cervix, and to the other side a long row of responsiveness. If you stroke her there, she will cum like when you do her g spot. The deeper spot is different in some ways in how it feels and how you can play with it.
First of all, the deeper spot feels different, so you can make her cum in different ways by rubbing it a while, then alternating by doing the g spot (unless that bothers her). Being that long shape, you can stroke it by running your fingertips from side to side, back and forth. This will make her cum even more intensely.
Another intense orgasm is doing both spots at the same time and in the same rhythm. Use the fingers of each hand to do a spot. This is even more intense than doing one or the other.
The deeper spot is on that back wall. That also means that it is on the wall between her pussy and ass. Inserting a finger up her ass and rubbing from both sides at one is extremely intense. Thrashing and flailing are often the result!
These are the basic fingering techniques for the two spots. They can be done alone or during oral - your mouth on her clit adds even more to her pleasure.
You might say "That's nice, but how about penetration?" The spots, especially that deeper one will make you the Fuck King in most women's eyes. The secret you already know that there are those two spots. The techniques to do them with your cock are numerous, but here are some basics.
The g spot is hard to do because of where it is, so positions make a difference. You have to rub that place inside the front wall with your shaft. Her riding while leaning forward is a good, common position. Having her rub herself on your shaft often gets that result, especially if she leans forward. (Have her stick a nipple in your mouth to suck on.)
The deeper spot can be hit with the cock head. The big trick is the angle of your thrust. Going straight in and out does not do it. In fact, you risk hitting her cervix, which feels to her like when you get hit in the balls. Angle to the side, right or left each work, several degrees. Your cock head ought to be hitting that deeper spot and she will cum every time you hit it. (Remember, it only is super sensitive after she’s had an orgasm, so foreplay will get you somewhere.)
Doggie is a great position to do this. So is having her ride and come down at an angle. Her riding also leaves your hands free to caress nipples, clit, or stroke that deeper spot from the ass side. If you want her to have the “ultimate” volcanic orgasm, use one hand to diddle her clit, the other to stroke in her ass, and have a nipple to suck on as she rides at that angle.
A few other tips..
For many women, one nipple is more sensitive than the other and it is on the same side as she writes with.
You can change the pressure to give different sensations. Feather-light licking of the clit can drive her crazy, as can light stroking of a spot once she has cum several times.
These combinations of rhythm, pressure, and which of the four places (nipples, clit, g spot, and deeper spot) you do will vary her orgasms. You can give her a super-long one or a string of firecrackers – many small ones right after each other. Play and experiment. She will love the variety.
Explore the rest of her body. Each woman can have other places that get sensitive when she cums her ear lobes, the skin of her throat, the small of her back, the back of her neck, her palms. Play and explore!
The results can be great. Not only will she cum like she never has and she’ll think you are that sex-god, but she will want to do everything she can to make you enjoy what she does in return.